On pronouns

I’ve never put much store in pronouns. Trans heresy, I know. Our pronouns are supposed to be near and dear to our hearts, defended with the same fervor as our chosen names.  They can be flags, or weapons, or mirrors to reflect our deeply felt senses of self.  They don’t always fit. Maybe it was …

A decade, a day

It feels like it was yesterday. They opened the door and I walked out of the building. When I had entered the institution, it was under a grey autumn sky, overcast and foreboding.  Now, an April breeze caressed my lungs with my first breath of fresh air in seven months. It’s been ten years, but …

So, three queers walk into an abandoned hospital…

Yesterday, Sassafras Lowrey, Syd London, and I went on an incredible adventure.  Sassafras and I were on a mission to get new publicity photos for PoMo Freakshow, as well as getting new shots for our individual work.  For my individual shoot, we visited a deserted old asylum. I had envisioned some sort of abandoned hospital …

Troubled Teen Tour in Portland!

Last week, the PoMo Freakshow Troubled Teen Tour took me back to Portland to perform 348.  It’s sort of a full-circle story: when I was an undergrad student at Lewis & Clark College, I studied theatre and helped plan the Gender Studies Symposium.  Now, years later, I returned as an invited guest of the Symposium, …

On Bullies

His name was Garrett.  He lived a block and a half away, and walking in front of his house was the fastest way to get to Shumway Elementary School.  Every morning, and every afternoon, I took the longer route. Garrett was a bully, and everyone knew it.  Well, everyone other than his mother.  Isn’t that …

Newsflash: Bullies Don’t Care How You Identify

I will grant that this New York Times article has good intentions. It wants everyone to remember that gay teens aren’t the only teens that get bullied, get depressed, and kill themselves. Unfortunately, it tries to do this by erasing the differences between the experiences of gay and straight teens, offering a diluted sort of …

Another way that New York’s psych hospitals are broken.

One of the most frequent questions I’ve been asked, since I started performing ‘348’ and talking about my experiences as a “troubled teen” within the psych industry is, “why didn’t/don’t you sue them?”  This question comes from a belief that a legal battle could shut down an abusive facility, or at the very least eliminate …

Asking and Telling.

Yesterday, the Senate voted to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.  This long-awaited decision signals a victory to many LGBT people, ending a discriminatory practice that has silenced soldiers, ended careers, and perpetuated homophobia.  Of course, as some LGBT activists both celebrate the end of DADT, it’s important to remember that the repeal is not a …